Designed Thinking

Helping Your World Change from the Inside Out

Shyness isn’t just a state of mind. It is a self defeating perspective, fueled by heightened sensitivity producing a protective emotional response. The person has difficulty in making sense of how they are to relate in social situations.

There is often the inability to find the needed inner strength and confidence in the presence of authority figures, strangers, or even friends and family. Negative thoughts take over and there can be an overpowering urge to withdraw into oneself. There is a fear of approaching people, of being noticed and the ability to speak up is lost.

But there’s good news, shyness need not interfere with professional and interpersonal goals and desires. Beyond the negative beliefs and cautious feelings, sometimes buried deep inside, some part of you already knows how to be different. This side you may not had the chance to effectively develop yet, but there is a person within you waiting to step out and be more expressive. If this side of you is in hiding, you’ll have to discover your own inner ability to be comfortable communicate with yourself and bring it forward.

It can seem a mystery to watch people who just easily connect with others at the drop of a hat. It may seem unfair not have the same abilities, but we begin with what we have been given, because no one said life was fair. You do the best you can with what you have and then continue to make improvement each and everyday

Our preconceived notion of how people will respond to us is the biggest obstacle holding us back. We doubt what we know and we question our judgment. “Can I ever be comfortable here? How can I know who to trust? Will they accept me? What if I mess up?”

NO ONE WANTS TO LIVE THE LIFE OF A HERMIT

By the time Bill was 38, he had watched most his friends get married, get promotions, go on adventures, be invited to parties, while he spent most of his time in isolation. If this was his choice, he could still feel good about himself, but he hated the in ability to do more with this life.

He was reluctant to share his thoughts and feelings, yet he still wanted to speak openly. He wanted to do the right thing and knew that if he didn't do something to improve the quality of his life, nothing will change. He wanted to be open to new ideas, but didn’t know how. 

The Carnegie Institute of Technology did an analysis of 10,000 people and found that only 15% of those who were successful did so because of technical training and job proficiency, that 85% of success was due to the personality factor people display. It is not what you know; it is how you present yourself. Bill had to ask himself how much was he missing out on in life?

Designed Thinking offers alternatives to your complex challenges. Our commitment and experience has allowed clients to loosen the clamps of discomfort and gain the success they were seeking. Our phone consultations have reached out across North American and beyond. Those who decide to participate have made changes in themselves right in the comfort of their own home.

We've had the privilege of assisting a diverse group of clients who've been as wonderful to work with as the successes they've desired to achieve. Even though some of their setbacks had been life long obstacles, they’ve found change is possible when working with caring practitioners who understand their situation. Whether it's the ability to feel comfortable in social situations, giving a speech, or overcoming a lifelong fear of simply saying hello, we've helped them reach out and achieve their dreams.

Our clients' have overcome:

• The feeling other will criticize their behaviors or comments
• Low self-esteem
• The anxiety of being judged
• Feeling no one listens to what they have to say
• Codependency -believing happiness is found in others
• Lacking confidence to pursue their desires
• The fear of attending social functions
• The embarrassment in everyday activities
• The need to keep a low profile
• Their focus on failure instead of success
• The inability to trust other people
• Their beliefs they’re not good enough to be part of some group or activity

Call us for a free 15-minute consultation .if you are ready to change. Take your confidence to the next level and lift your self-esteem. You know there's more to you then what others have been seeing. You can reach us at 866-718-9995. We're confident we can assist you in becoming more comfortable inside yourself

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We have assisted clients in Arizona, Alaska, Arkansas, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New York, North Carolina, Ohio, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Wisconsin, Ontario, Quebec, Argentina, Brazil, South Africa, Dubia, Japan

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