Designed Thinking

 

The Quality of Your Life is Dependent on the Quality of Your Thoughts

Overcoming Shyness

Shyness is a state of mind, a heightened self-awareness of thoughts, feelings and physical reactions when in the presence of authority figures, strangers, or in intimate situations. It's a conditioned response that affects millions of people.

The good news is you can change this conditioning. Shyness and social anxieties don't need to interfere with professional and interpersonal goals. Beyond your emotions, beliefs, and resistant behaviors there is a you waiting to step out and be openly expressive. When you discover your inner ability to be comfortable in your own mind the outside world will feel safe.

The Designed Thinking approach is a combination of NLP, Hypnosis, Neuro-Semantics and other studies in the field of the subconscious mind. These new methods allow you to easily release the limitations you've experienced.  Discover how to assert yourself, the real you who has something to say, by tapping into your mind's own natural ability to feel confident.

We've had the privilege of assisting a diverse group of clients who've been as wonderful to work with as the successes they've achieved. Whether it's the ability to feel comfortable in social situations or when giving a speech, or overcoming a life-long fear of simply saying hello, we've helped them reach out and achieve their dreams.

Our clients' have overcome:

  • The feeling other will criticize their behaviors or comments
  • Low self-esteem
  • The anxiety of being judged
  • Feeling no one listens to what they have to say
  • Codependency -believing happiness is found in others
  • Lacking confidence to pursue their desires
  • The fear attending social situation
  • Embarrassment when engaging in certain activities
  • The need to keep a low profile
  • Believing in failure instead of success
  • The inability to trust other people
  • Not being good enough to be part of some group or activity

The Carnegie Institute of Technology did an analysis of 10,000 people and found that only 15% of those who were successful did so because of technical training and job proficiency, that 85% of success was due to the personality factor people displayed. It is not what you know; it is how you present yourself. Now what is this costing you in your life?

What would it be like if you could come out from behind your fears?

While shyness can be painful, it's our preconceived notions of how people will respond to us that hold us back. We doubt what we know and we question our judgment. Can I ever be comfortable here? How can I know who to trust? Do I have the ability to change my perspective? Am I certain I know what will work?

How often have you been reluctant to share your thoughts and feelings with others, yet you still want to speak openly with someone you can trust? You want to know you are doing the right thing and you know that if you don't do something to improve the quality of your life, nothing will change. You want to be open to new ideas, to comfortably take yourself outside your current thought patterns.

The Designed Thinking approach offers alternatives to your complex challenges. Our commitment and experience allows you the opportunity to receive the rapid changes needed in order to gain the success you seek.  We've been able to reach out to people all across the country. Those who decide to call us have had the opportunity to participate in our one-on-one phone consultations in the comfort of their own home.

Call us for a free 15-minute consultation . Take your confidence to the next level and lift your self-esteem. You know there's more to you then what others have been seeing. E-mail us or call 866-718-9995. We're confident we can assist you in becoming more comfortable inside yourself.

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Last update June 15, 2007

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