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This model is the basis of all NLP. If we did not delete, distort and generalize the events
we take in, consciously we would be in sensory overload. It's the sensation of more things happening than you can handle, which can be quite overwhelming, can't it?
DELETE - This is when we omitting data or selectively paying attention to certain of our experience and not others. Think of a time when
you were so engage in a conversion with someone that you were unaware of other events going on around you.
DISTORT - My friend Bob and I were one of the only men at a meeting where a woman mentioned that male
hypnotherapists should not work with women. Later as we talked about the event, Bob said he couldn't believe that the speaker said, "Men should not use hypnosis". That is not what was said, but that's
what Bob's mind interpreted, even though it was not what was said. Distortions are when we misrepresent our reality
GENERALIZE - In the above example, the women's comment that male hypnotherapist should not work on women is a
good example of generalization. It is putting ideas, people or things a convenient group or category, or drawing global conclusions.
Watch the filters you place your world in, for the world is never what we think it is. If we are taking in 2
million bits of information and only aware of around 7 bits, there is much data we are missing.
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